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"A family based in the northern part of London seeks an remarkable and qualified tutor to assist their youngest child on his early path to becoming an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might easily overlook the phrase "initial stages" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it could be the most significant aspect of this unique job advert, as it seeks to find a teacher for a infant.

Many of applications have already been submitted since the anonymous family posted their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the post has attracted notice in the press, with several wondering why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, head and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is assisting the family in their hunt, explained that despite initial doubt, he viewed the concept "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he said they understood the atypical character of their request, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to get a tutor, as they had held off until their firstborn was five, and by that age "cultural bias had by then taken hold".

What precisely did the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam answered. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the elder child had absorbed "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural habits. The family explained to Adam they did not want history to happen again with their infant.

The plan: To engage a British tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby from the very start.

Osmotic Learning

"A lot of the development at the start here is kind of osmotic," stated the expert.

It's by means of this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will adopt the British traits they aim to instil.

Adam said the tutor must be an individual who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they aren't even aware they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told the expert the selected educator should ideally also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, skiing, creative fields and music so as to inspire the child in a wide range of interests.

Additionally though, he explained the family desired the tutor to sign up the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son develop into a "British gentleman" will result in success and create opportunities.

"Considering the rights and wrongs of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he comments.

Yet, notwithstanding all this guidance in "English culture", might the child absorb alleged cultural influence from the international family he resides with regardless?

"Absolutely", replied Adam. "The parents realize this may not work, but they've simply adopted the view of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he explained.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

There are some in the private teaching field who share similar concerns.

Peter Cui, CEO and founder of Blue Education, who provides personal educators, commented that "the development of embracing two identities, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."

Peter wrote that he had relocated from Asia to the UK at the time of childhood, and had been educated understanding and embodying both cultures. He progressed to learn at Cambridge University.

"The idea that one individual can act as a embodiment of UK identity, an individual who can somehow transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate onto a 12-month-old child, strikes me as idealistic and unfeasible," he stated.

"From my perspective, engaging a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will not automatically achieve the result they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and however I have been lucky enough to enjoy several of the experiences they desire for their son."

He continued: "The reality is, self-identity should not be dictated from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, English culture is something the CEO hopes can be instructed – and marketed.

"I believe the situation that the global community regards us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating